Think about your perfect partner. List all the things you hope to see in them. Think about your morals, the standards you hold for them.
Now here’s an honest question, do you think you’ll even attract this person by being who you are now? Let’s say you want someone who is truthful and trustworthy: how can you expect this if you constantly lie and break every promise you make? You want someone who’s got their life in order: how can you expect this if you don’t even have your own priorities straight? You want someone who is respectful: how can you expect this if you’re disrespectful? I mean, not only to others, but to yourself. How can you constantly disrespect and do horrible things your body and live with it? If you want them to be good to you, make sure you give your best to them.
Too hard? Think about what you don’t want.
If you don’t want someone that gets around, don’t do it. If you don’t want someone that smokes or drinks, don’t smoke or drink. If you don’t want someone that slacks off, don’t slack. I you don’t want someone that will cheat, don’t cheat and stay faithful. I don’t know about you, but this sounds quite reasonable to me..
To want something so beautiful as to be in love, you need to be ready for it. You can’t just stumble upon someone you think is the perfect person for you and expect them to fall in love with you if you aren’t right for them as well.
